If there’s one factor I’m skilled at over the previous 5 years, it’s transferring! For higher or for worse, we now have simply accomplished our third transfer inside 5 years (with two youngsters and pets!).
On this publish, I’ll train you every little thing I’ve realized about the right way to pack, the right way to transfer effectively, and settle into your new residence rapidly. We’ll additionally cowl finances suggestions and pointers for making the transition clean for kids.
I even have passionate emotions about the very best packing provides that streamline the method—particularly if you’re doing all of the packing your self!
Associated: What I Discovered Transferring With Youngsters and How We Prepped Our House To Promote.

Packing Suggestions For Transferring
We selected to pack our personal containers as a result of we wished to make the most of the possibility to declutter and donate objects as we packed.
I see the plain advantages of hiring a mover to pack all of your belongings for you, however I might not less than think about doing it your self if you happen to really feel you’ve got lots of muddle to do away with. We frolicked packing our belongings on nights and weekends.
All through this course of, we saved hundreds of {dollars} in transferring charges and we had been capable of donate lots of stuff as a substitute of transferring it after which donating it later. Listed here are my suggestions for doing your individual packing:
- Get matching containers. I utterly perceive how tempting it’s to attempt to save all of your Amazon containers or procure some containers from a neighborhood grocery retailer. However hear me out—it’s value it to get containers which can be all precisely the identical measurement. The containers we used had been primarily medium containers with handles and bankers containers (which require no packing tape). I extremely recommend bankers containers for books and heavy, small objects.
- Use clothes luggage for clothes and linens. We bought plastic storage luggage for transferring all our “smooth stuff” like clothes, mattress linens, pillows, and even objects like youngsters toys. These luggage match much more than containers and create an opulent layer that’s nice to make use of as padding in your POD for furnishings, mirrors (or different objects that you’re very involved about defending).
- Label every little thing. Even when the field you might be packing appears “random,” attempt to withstand the urge to label it that means or not label it. As a substitute, make notes on the containers of any objects it’s possible you’ll attempt to discover later. If you wish to do a coloration coded system, I like to recommend these transferring field labels.
- Declutter ruthlessly as you go. As I discussed above, among the finest perks of packing your individual containers is you possibly can concurrently declutter your belongings as you go. I like to recommend eliminating something that you simply don’t use, you don’t love, or that you simply’ve outgrown in fashion. I like to make use of the Marie Kondo “Does it spark pleasure?” methodology. Attempt to donate as a lot as potential.
Reserving a Transferring Service
After studying our pal Julia’s transferring fraud expertise, we determined in opposition to a transferring dealer or a full service transferring firm. I’m positive there are a lot of respected choices on the market, however after studying her story we felt most secure with a easy POD transferring possibility.
Having used a POD previously to relocate throughout state strains, we knew what to anticipate and felt good concerning the possibility.
The most important distinction between a POD and a transferring truck like U-Haul is that you simply don’t must drive to POD your self. So as soon as it’s packed and locked up, you possibly can drive to your new residence (and even fly) with minimal belongings and you already know your POD will make its approach to you in a number of weeks time.
The way in which our POD expertise labored is that we booked a precise day that our POD would arrive—a few week earlier than we departed from our residence in Tennessee. As soon as the POD arrived, it sat in our driveway for round every week.
You possibly can select to pack the POD your self or rent a neighborhood mover that will help you pack it. We selected to do a hybrid method. We packed the bulk all our containers ourselves over a few month’s time earlier than the POD arrived.
On the day the POD was dropped off in our driveway, my husband loaded nearly all of our containers himself. He wished to do that as a result of he was meticulous about placing all of the heavy containers on the backside. He packed every row all the way in which to the ceiling so there was virtually no wasted area.
The subsequent day, a transferring crew arrived and helped us transfer giant and heavy objects into the POD that we couldn’t have finished on our personal. Since we offered most of our furnishings with our residence, we solely had about 10 large and heavy objects to maneuver and it took lower than an hour.
As soon as that was accomplished, we used each inch of the remaining area to suit extra stuff into the POD. We ended up utilizing 100% of the area throughout the POD and had been capable of match virtually every little thing we wished into the area. What we couldn’t match, we squeezed into our automobiles or donated earlier than transferring.
Why we like PODS – To start with, PODS are reasonably priced. I haven’t discovered a extra reasonably priced possibility for transferring throughout nation. I actually like that you’ve got as much as every week to pack so there’s time to get it excellent (most of my errors in life are a results of speeding).
The POD system is very simple and easy. We felt shielded from fraud and we saved some huge cash on the transfer total. Our transfer value beneath $4,000 complete, which is a giant financial savings on what it might have been with a full service possibility.
Cons of PODS (watch out for this stuff) – The most important criticism that I hear from individuals who have used a POD for transferring is that lots of stuff was damaged or broken. You’re principally packing a small semi truck again and you then don’t see it for about two weeks when it arrives in your new driveway.
What occurs to them throughout their journey? That is unclear, however it looks as if they perhaps go to hell and again. Haha! OK, however actually—you need to be very strategic in your packing! It’s as much as you to ensure furnishings is sufficiently padded and secured.
Assume that the objects in your POD are going to have a VERY tough journey and pack accordingly.
There are a number of issues we’d NOT put in a POD and as a substitute stored in our automobiles that we drive. One was very costly tools like computer systems, body TVs, and my husband’s music gear.
One other factor is vegetation. I personally wouldn’t put vegetation in a POD until you completely needed to as a result of they might not make it.
The very last thing to watch out about is something that may soften or freeze. Relying on the season, watch out and do not forget that this POD will not be temperature managed. I might not put candles and issues like that within the POD as they might soften and make a large number.
The final con of transferring with a POD is that you simply don’t know the precise day it is going to arrive at your new residence. You may be given a window of time. So you need to be versatile and capable of dwell with out EVERYTHING in your POD for as much as every week or two additional.
To make up for this, we made positive we packed two weeks of clothes in our automobiles and also you’ll need to pack different necessities (like perhaps air mattresses to sleep on) till your POD arrives.

Transferring Suggestions and Hacks
- Pack a “consolation field” for every member of your loved ones, together with pets. Objects you will discover in our consolation containers are something you possibly can pull out the primary evening to really feel consolation. Examples embody the youngsters’ favourite blankets and stuffies, my favourite candle with a lighter to mild it instantly, favourite snacks, socks, tea or espresso. It’s additionally a good suggestion to pack important objects in an in a single day bag like toothbrushes and some adjustments of clothes. Your future self will thanks!
- Maintain one field for tremendous essential objects like passports, payments you’ll need to pay (principally something that may not get misplaced for a month).
- Pack containers totally. Don’t depart large gaps in containers. We crammed in lots of our containers with towels, additional clothes, even rolls of bathroom paper.
- I’ve moved my clothes on hangers a number of instances. To do that, you retain bundles of clothes on hangers and canopy them with (unscented) trash luggage which can be turned over with a gap for the hangers. It saves lots of time.
- Select containers which can be uniform in measurement and have handles. Our favourite choices are this measurement for larger objects (kitchen home equipment, toys, and many others.) and this measurement for books and decor.
- Label essential objects you’ll need instantly VERY clearly. Make them very straightforward to search out. This might embody sheets and blankets, towels, toiletries and every day use kitchen objects like a espresso maker or tea kettle.
- Reward your self for all of your onerous work. You deserve it!
Word: If any a part of you feels responsible shopping for transferring provides as a substitute of procuring freebies and solid offs, right here is my pep speak. Most significantly, uniform containers and luggage will make your transferring truck packing extra tight {and professional}.
And keep in mind—you possibly can cross ALL of this stuff alongside to the subsequent individual you already know who’s in want of transferring provides. Nothing must be wasted. Nearly every little thing can be utilized once more.

Get Organized Earlier than You Transfer
Listed here are some concepts in your pre-move guidelines:
- Schedule utilities, web, garden care, or some other providers wanted in your new residence.
- Schedule a cease date for providers at your earlier residence. We sometimes do it proper after the brand new homeowners take occupancy and allow them to know the date to allow them to schedule new providers.
- Have your mail forwarded to your new handle by USPS. Change your handle on all accounts you utilize typically (like Amazon, any payments you obtain every month, your financial institution, and many others.).
- Schedule a grocery supply for the day you progress into your new residence.
- Change the handle for any subscriptions you’ve got that arrive every month.

Finest Transferring Bins and Packing Provides
These are the provides that I personally used. It’s very annoying to must run to the shop for easy issues like extra containers or tape, so stocking up earlier than you start packing is wise. I reordered a number of issues as we started to run low.
- Medium containers with deal with holes. These are our go-to containers for bigger objects. We solely used a number of containers bigger than this. Nearly all of our stuff like kitchen home equipment, youngsters toys and issues like that match inside these medium measurement containers. They’re the very best measurement so that they don’t get too heavy you possibly can’t elevate them.
- Bankers containers. These are the very best for packing books, recordsdata and any type of paperwork. I LOVE these containers as a result of they don’t require any packing tape (in any respect!) and when you be taught to fold them they’re fast and simple to assemble. I additionally love how straightforward the tops are to tackle and off. I strongly advocate these containers for books as a result of they’re stronger than taped bottoms and don’t get too heavy. We moved a whole bunch of books in these containers with no points.
- Clothes luggage. These are nice for clothes and likewise linens, pillows, and vacation decor like Christmas timber, garlands, and wreaths.
- Transferring labels. These are nice as a result of they’re coloration coded as nicely!
- Safer field cutter. I really like this factor! It’s straightforward to make use of, works nice and is much safer than a steel razor blade.
Suggestions For Transferring Cross Nation
Technique is every little thing when transferring throughout state strains with youngsters and pets. For the reason that majority of our belongings had been in our POD on transferring day, we stuffed our autos with every little thing else we might match.
Sadly, we ran out of area and needed to give some objects away on the final minute. That is widespread, so plan for it by packing your high precedence objects first.
On our transferring day, I had the automotive with our canine and two youngsters, and my husband drove our different automotive, which was far more filled with belongings.
- Plan fastidiously. Since area (each in your new residence and your transferring car) will most likely be restricted, plan in addition to potential and check out to not pack issues you’ll need to promote or donate when you arrive. Additionally, be strategic in what you pack, prioritizing as you go and leaving non-obligatory objects for final. If you’re packing in a rush, it’s onerous to purge as you go, so I like to recommend beginning as far prematurely as you possibly can. Ideally with months or weeks to pack.
- Promote, donate, purge. Earlier than transferring, do away with every little thing you aren’t positive will work in your new residence. In case your new area is a unique period or fashion or in case your preferences have modified, think about this a possibility to begin contemporary. I downsized my closet by about 50% earlier than transferring and we ended up promoting our home with a lot of the furnishings included. Even nonetheless, I donated about 5 extra kitchen containers instantly the primary week we had been in our new residence. Purging as you go will assist to get rid of a few of this wasted effort and make unpacking extra of a pleasing expertise.
- Ship useful objects to your self. As a result of we used the POD system, I knew we wouldn’t have beds or mattresses. So, I shipped us some good air mattresses to make use of the primary week, together with another helpful objects like cleansing sprays and bathroom paper—all of the stuff you want instantly.
- Create comforts anytime you possibly can. After we pulled into the driveway of our new residence, my in-laws had been within the entrance yard ready for us. My mother-in-law had supplied to purchase us groceries that day (I ought to have stated sure!). We had a scheduled deep clear a number of days earlier than we moved in. We did the consolation field thought and I had candles to burn and our children’ favourite blankets and pillows. Even with all of those comforts, the transferring day is tense and exhausting. My suggestion is to do as many of those comforting suggestions as you possibly can, but additionally settle for that irrespective of how onerous you attempt, transferring is an emotional expertise with highs and lows. That is to be anticipated and regular.
Suggestions for Transferring with Kids and Pets
I’ve moved a number of instances with our younger youngsters and we get lots of questions on the right way to make it simpler on youngsters. The reality is that leaving your faculty, the comforts of the house, neighborhood and city your little one is aware of could be very scary.
For our youngsters, the large emotions appeared to return in waves and the worst of it was weeks after we moved when the mud started to settle.
Along with the consolation containers, which we talked about above, I’ve a number of suggestions for navigating a transfer with youngsters.
- Go away area for unhappy emotions. There’s nothing unsuitable with lacking your outdated residence, faculty, associates, or life earlier than a transfer. Go away area for these emotions and in your little one to work by them at no matter velocity they should. Unhappy emotions a few earlier residence or faculty usually are not a mirrored image on how they really feel concerning the new residence or new faculty. You possibly can really feel two emotions on the similar time—these are regular, wholesome feelings.
- Create issues to sit up for. After we first instructed our youngsters that we offered our residence furnished and that we had been leaving all of the furnishings (even their beds), they reacted with unhappiness, which we anticipated. To assist the youngsters really feel excited for our transfer, we allow them to assist us select new beds for every of their rooms together with themes and colours for his or her partitions. We additionally reminded them typically of the rationale we had been transferring—so they might see their household at any time when they wished. This was an enormous assist and luxury to us because the transfer approached.
- Do enjoyable actions instantly. The week we moved, my husband and I had been overwhelmed and exhausted. If it had been simply the 2 of us, we most likely would have ordered in each evening and by no means left the home. With the youngsters, we discovered it helpful to leap into new actions instantly. We joined a pool the place they might go swimming with their child cousin, we walked to dinner in our neighborhood, and I took every little one out for particular person time like visiting the native bookstore and going out for ice cream. These additional actions introduced the youngsters lots of consolation and pleasure and gave us a smooth place to land that first week.
Transferring with pets. Our canines have tended to be fairly versatile in all our strikes. My suggestion is to present them a number of additional treats, additional walks, and a constant place to sleep from the primary evening. I’ve heard that transferring with cats is extra of a problem, so you probably have had that have I’d love to listen to your learnings within the feedback.
You probably have any suggestions for transferring, packing or navigating change, I’d love to listen to them within the feedback! Love, Elsie
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